It’s all for the best.

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I think that there’s not really a right way to finish things up and just start something new.

There’s not really a perfect ritual, a perfect goodbye, a perfect hello. We are always dealing with constant changes in our lives; that’s natural of us, humans. But sometimes, I believe we simply fail to notice most of these changes. We don’t realize that every step we take in this world makes us see it differently. We are a work in progress, and we will be until de end of our days.

When we look ahead of us and realize that something big is about to change in our lives, it is one of these two options, I believe, which tend to be the case to represent the situation that we may find ourselves facing. Generally, we’re either 1) just now realizing a difference that’s been actually haoppening for some time now; or 2) we’re really just about to put into action a conscious act of change.

Either way, what I’m trying to say is that change is always happening to us. But, if we look very close into it, when sometimes we panic over specific ones — the ones that seem huge and radical; we’re really just becoming aware of a change that’s no different or bigger than all the other ones. Only difference is that, this time, we're actually noticing it happening, and that's what tends to make us feel anxious.

So, if maybe you are stressing about some big change you believe you are about to face, try and remember that there’s a chance that maybe that thing is not really much more than what you’ve been dealing with for your whole life, everyday. And you’ve gone through it well enough, haven’t you? You’re here.

Some things just come up through our heads and seem to have the one and only purpose to make us anxious and worried; when, in fact, they’re just there to make us aware of the fact that we are human and supposed to get better everyday.

Therefore, this is all I ask: don’t let these thoughts get the best of you in ways which might have the opposite effect of that "making you a better person" thing. Don’t let them stop you from pursuing your goals and your life. Remember that everything happens because it is supposed to teach you something new, to make you grow in some way. Once you become aware of that, nothing else can drag you down. You’ll know that it is all for the best. And that knowlege itself will be able to change the way in which you choose to deal with life forever.